The other day we had a fight...
You know what we argued for?
It's just a simple padlock in our room..
The padlock is number key system. You don't need a physical key but all you have to
do is to memorize the number combination.
The problem is the padlock was lost.
Pretty hilarious,,,since there's no key the very padlock was lost..
and it makes my wife very angry..
The reason it was lost is because my son James always plays with it.
He knows the number combination which I taught him and that is where
the arguments comes in..
Our arguments is that I should not taught the number combination to James
so that the padlock will not be lost.
She said that there are many important documents in the cabinet and some money
and it might be stolen or lost if we have someone with us like for example our housemaid.
She had a point...
My argument is that I should teach James how to open it because he has Intellectual Disability (ID)
and he should learn everything he could.
One time I saw him having a hard time unlocking the padlock...so I believe he should learn
to use things like that...
And so the padlock was lost...
My wife keeps on arguing with me and bringing her battle on the table...
On the other hand I will say why I taught James how to unlock the padlock
Never ending battle...
It's just the padlock but it's like the whole house is trembling with our voice.
And the worst part even our kids are affected by our fighting..
If you are in the middle of your marriage crisis always think of your children.
I know you have found out that your husband is cheating on you but please
weight in the consequences and if there's a chance to forgive and fix the marriage again.
You are family.
When we say family there's Father, Mother and Kids...
See Kids are the balance point where and when the two of you are arguing or making
a big decision in life.
Your husband made a mistake but don't put all the blame on him..
Same thing with him, he can't put all the blame on you because at some point he
got lost.
Remember that marriage is not always bed of roses.
There will always be uphill and downhill and that's when the two of you must and always be
together whoever was wrong.
So before we go to sleep last night. I want to make peace with my wife.
After I close my cellphone repair shop I bought a chocolate cake and I know she
likes cakes and sweets.
In it I ask the cake designer to put "I'm sorry mama Jeannette".
The moment I enter the room I remove the box and prepare to show her the message on
the cake.
Of course she put blanket on her face the moment I enter the room. She is still mad of me..
My kids are very excited to eat the cake they have their spoon and plate with them, even if my wife have not answered yes to my apology.
She said Yes and every one was happy!
We ate our dinner and of course the cake.
We sleep and so tomorrow I can go to work with peace on my mind.
You know when you got angry with your husband sometimes you say things that hurt his
ego and that's where trouble and misunderstanding happens...
anyway both you have good point...
Stop fighting and don't forget always that your kids are watching you no matter what you
do inside your home...
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